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Self-Inflicted Injuries Can Make You Feel Stupid

Have you ever injured yourself in a silly way? Yeah. Makes you feel stupid doesn’t it?

The other night I warmed up some leftover Chinese food. My wife, Priscilla, was working a 24-hour shift so it was just me for dinner. I usually don’t cook a big meal when I’m by myself. Some nights I may scramble some eggs or just warm up some leftovers.

I was sitting at the table and, since I was alone, I was on my phone either scrolling through Facebook or TikTok. That’s when I put a piece of a chicken finger in my mouth…. and proceeded to bite down sharply on my tongue!!!!!!

My first thought (besides “$&##%!”) was, “I’ve been eating soIid food for 62 years and I can’t even get this right?”

To be honest, this is not the first time I’ve bit my tongue while eating, and if I know myself well (which I do), it probably won’t be the last.

Why do we do this?

I wonder if it’s because we’re not paying attention. You know how to eat, you’ve done it for years, why do you need to concentrate? Remember, I was on my phone and not paying attention.

One other time I was trying to be courteous.

A couple of years ago my grandson, daughter and son-in-law were visiting and we wanted to take Liam to Santa’s Village. That had always been a yearly trip with our kids so we wanted Liam to experience it.

We drove up to Gorham, NH and stayed overnight at one of our favorite hotels so we could get an early start the next morning at the park. There were three of us staying in our hotel room so when nature called in the middle of the night, I didn’t want to turn on the light and wake everyone up. I knew where the bathroom was so I was sure I could make it. When I got up I proceeded to walk right into the desk that was along the wall. I didn’t just stub my toe (which would have been bad enough), I BROKE IT! It wasn’t my big toe, it was the one right next to it. Oh that hurt! Just the pressure of the sheet resting on it hurt that night. Oh and I did end up waking everybody up. So much for that plan.

What do you do for a broken toe? Not much!

Thank God I had a scooter to get around the park the next day as walking was not pleasant. That toe STILL bothers me, especially if it’s going to rain.

Oh the things we do to ourselves.

A few years ago we were taking care of the dog at our next-door neighbors house. We do that for each other. I went over one morning and after I let Conway out he didn’t want to come back in. My plan was to just go outside and try to convince him to come in but as I opened their sliding glass door… I stepped ON the track for the door instead of over it. I don’t know why. In fact, I don’t know why I do half the things I do. Turns out I sprained my ankle. It hurt so bad I had to call my daughter to ask her to take MY dog out!

Yup! It’s gotten to the point where my wife just shakes her head sometimes and says, “What did you do now?”

When I call my daughter, Kat, for advice (she’s a high school athletic trainer) even she says, “What did you do now?”

At first I wondered if this was a “guy” thing but then I read an article online from Business Standard that said, “A majority of women have admitted that they are clumsier than men.” Now, without even checking, I can already hear the women in my life saying, “Uhhhh, NO!”

It’s no doubt probably a “dad” thing, or at least it is in my family.

Oh well, I guess it’s another thing I have to look forward to as I get older.

  • Concentrate while chewing your food.
  • Use a nightlight or your phone flashlight when getting up in the middle of the night.
  • Don’t poke yourself in the gums (or eye) while brushing teeth.
  • Sit down while attempting to put on pants or underwear.
  • Stop putting things on the top shelf.
  • Always tie shoes in a double knot.

Am I missing anything else obvious?

Oh yeah! Always carry health insurance card in case of stupidity!


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5 responses to “Self-Inflicted Injuries Can Make You Feel Stupid”

  1. Diane Hahn Avatar
    Diane Hahn

    2 months ago while using my 2 axes to prepare some wood to put in my fire pit (my message is to slam The sharpest ax into the hunk of wood and then use the dull one to pound it) For whatever stupid reason I didn’t put my cut glove on my left hand which grips the sharp ax. I brought that dull ax down with all my might and missed the sharp ax and drove the dull blade into the side of my left index finger. I took a good sized hunk out of it, nearly down to the bone. I stubbornly refused to go to urgent care to have it addressed. After 8 mostly painful weeks, it is mostly healed over with quite a thick scar. I don’t know what distracted me I don’t know why I did not use my glove I don’t know why I didn’t go to urgent care. DUH-UGH

  2. bill howe Avatar
    bill howe

    are you related to Bruce Bradley wbz?

    1.  Avatar
      Anonymous

      No there is no relation.

  3. Margaret Britton Avatar
    Margaret Britton

    Hi Pete,
    We shouldn’t feel stupid ..part of it is aging and the other part is not paying attention as much since we become complacent because we have done these same things over and over for years …we just need to be a little more careful ???? easier said than done ;>)

  4. DOROTHY Koczera Avatar
    DOROTHY Koczera

    Love your column as usual !
    Get some nite lights from
    AMAZON ,they are the best .
    Little round lights & you never have to put a light on at nite again .

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